by Ricardo Daryans
Have you ever thought about that? Why do men get dumped by women? Time and time again you’ll hear a man make the comment that his girlfriend or wife just broke up with him. You were so good to her it almost seemed like you worshiped her, so you’ll have no idea why.
Most likely you’ve heard the phrase “Nice guys finish last”, right? In fact, that saying is…
by Ricardo Daryans
Have you ever thought about that? Why do men get dumped by women? Time and time again you’ll hear a man make the comment that his girlfriend or wife just broke up with him. You were so good to her it almost seemed like you worshiped her, so you’ll have no idea why.
Most likely you’ve heard the phrase “Nice guys finish last”, right? In fact, that saying is somewhat true. Many women aren’t as self assured as they could be and any women who is a little insecure will sometimes wonder why a really great guy would want her. She is going to be concerned if you act head over heals in love.
Does every female have that view? Nope, of course not! Many women have the self assurance to know what they want in a man and they’ll expect to be treated well or they’ll get out of the relationship. But Many women subscribe to the “grass is always greener” mentality. The man of their dreams could be the next one they meet.
What happens when a lady ends the relationship for no reason? The number one rule is NO CONTACT, not by phone, email, or in person. Blinded by her own selfishness, she was unable to see what you had to offer.
Don’t behave like your world has ended, go out and have a real life. Get out of the house and even date a little. When you start dating, you may be lucky enough to find a woman who is confident enough in herself to appreciate all that you have to offer her.
The real question you need to ask yourself is if you really want to be in a relationship with an insecure woman? Think about it? Is she really worth it? If you absolutely think she’s the one, then you need to give her a lot of time and space to grow up. Fixing a relationship is always possible if the trust is still there.
If you don’t call her in awhile there’s a good chance she’ll call you first. Be friendly, but aloof. Don’t share much about your life. And don’t ask a lot about hers. And cut the call short. Let her arrive at the conclusion that YOU are the one she’s been dreaming of.
Now it is simple, she will have to earn your time and affection. Be the one who is chased rather than the chaser. If she gets a hold on you while playing hard to get, don’t go “all in,” reserve a little. If you are really nice she may not know what to do so don’t be too open.
Did you hear me tell you to mistreat her? No way! Just stay a little more independent of her this time. If salvaging your relationship is what you want, here are the steps that may help restore your happiness.
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