The Truth Behind Break-Ups

Has this query ever crossed your mind? Why is it that women dump men? Time and time again you’ll hear a man make the comment that his girlfriend or wife just broke up with him. It’s puzzling, seeing as he treated her well and it seemed that he really worshipped her.

Most likely you’ve heard the phrase “Nice guys finish last”, right? In fact, that saying is somewhat true. Many women aren’t as self assured as they could be and any women who is a little insecure will sometimes wonder why a really great guy would want her. She is going to be concerned if you act head over heals in love.

Is it that way with all women? Nope, of course not! Many women have the self assurance to know what they want in a man and they’ll expect to be treated well or they’ll get out of the relationship. But there are a lot of women who tend to use the “grass is always greener” thought process. The best guy for them is the one just around a corner.

So, what do you do when a woman breaks up with you for seemingly no reason at all? The first thing you WON’T do is call her, text her or go visit her. She evidently took you for granted while you were together so let her have some time to miss you.

Don’t behave like your world has ended, go out and have a real life. Get out of the house and even date a little. When you start dating, you may be lucky enough to find a woman who is confident enough in herself to appreciate all that you have to offer her.

The reality check is deciding whether or not you can handle a relationship full of her insecurities. Think about it? Is she really worth it? You have to give your beloved the the freedom, the space and time to widen her horizons on her own. It is very possible to mend a relationship if the trust is present.

If you have not called lately, you can expect she will likely call you. Be friendly, but aloof. Don’t share much about your life. And don’t ask a lot about hers. And cut the call short. You want to allow her the opportunity to recognize you as her ideal man.

Now it is simple, she will have to earn your time and affection. Be the one who is chased rather than the chaser. If she gets a hold on you while playing hard to get, don’t go “all in,” reserve a little. If you are really nice she may not know what to do so don’t be too open.

Am I saying treat her bad? No way! Just stay a little more independent of her this time. If you really want to save your relationship, these are the steps that can make it happen!

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