by Ricardo d Argence
Do you ever ask yourself the question? Why do women break up with men? Time and time again you’ll hear a man make the comment that his girlfriend or wife just broke up with him. And you’ll wonder why, because he treated her great and really seemed to worship her.
Did you ever hear that line “Nice guys finish last?” Well, there’s a little truth to that statement.…
by Ricardo d Argence
Do you ever ask yourself the question? Why do women break up with men? Time and time again you’ll hear a man make the comment that his girlfriend or wife just broke up with him. And you’ll wonder why, because he treated her great and really seemed to worship her.
Did you ever hear that line “Nice guys finish last?” Well, there’s a little truth to that statement. Many women aren’t as self assured as they could be and any women who is a little insecure will sometimes wonder why a really great guy would want her. So, if you seem to be head over heals in love with her, she’ll wonder what’s wrong with you.
Does every female have that view? Nope, of course not! Many women have the self assurance to know what they want in a man and they’ll expect to be treated well or they’ll get out of the relationship. But Many women subscribe to the “grass is always greener” mentality. The man of their dreams could be the next one they meet.
How should you respond when a woman unexpectedly calls off the relationship? You will not immediately contact her. It’s obvious she didn’t appreciate what she had at the time, so give her the opportunity to realize what she has lost.
Try not to act like you’re devastated, but instead get back out in the world. Go out with friends, go on dates if you like. Actually, dating is good because you just might find a woman out there who has the self assurance to appreciate what you offer.
What you really need to ask yourself is whether you want to be involved on that level with a person who is so insecure. Think about it? Is she really worth it? If you think she’s the perfect one for you, give her the time and space to catch up. It is never impossible to mend a relationship, as long as the trust remains.
It’s fairly likely that she’ll call you if you haven’t called her in awhile. Be friendly, but aloof. Don’t share much about your life. And don’t ask a lot about hers. And cut the call short. The idea is to give her time to realize that you ARE the man of her dreams.
Basically, she’s going to have to earn the right to have you for a boyfriend or lover. Let HER chase you, not the other way around. And if you finally let her catch you, hold a little of yourself back for a while. Remember, she’s not sure what to do if you’re really nice, so don’t give so much.
Am I saying treat her bad? No way! Just stay a little more independent of her this time. If you really want to save your relationship, these are the steps that can make it happen!
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